According to Wikipedia, a part of definition of the word Christian is: "that it is used to describe anything associated with Christianity, or in a proverbial sense all that is noble, and good, and Christ-like. " This portion of their definition seems most applicable to our usage and anyone who's studied the "proverbial" book of Proverbs likely recognizes that it's a book dedicated to Gods' wisdom. So I can accept the reference because the definition seems to fit well with Gods' wisdom! But it also means that we have accepted Christ's sacrifice made on our behalf for our sins. By the majority of definition, you could substitute Christ-like or follower of Christs example for the word Christian. In my quest to fulfill the definition of Christian in my own life, I recognize that it's truth in application to myself depends on my truly becoming like Christ. In order to begin to comprehend the true meaning of the term and my ability successfully us...
A much loved spiritual mentor pointed out to me the difference between the Apostle Paul's past will (a life without Christ) and His new will that evolved after the Lord called Him. He then challenged me to define what my own new will would say... ...let my response be found here...
"It is not the title that people give to themselves that defines who they are; it is the fruit of what they produce." Graham Cooke